Mood Ring
Written by Mrs. G.t: mrs. g. 33 Comments
It was 1977, and Mrs. G. was eleven-years-old. She was living in the deep south, culturally deprived and pining for the finer things in life. Having recently graduated from the fashion breakthrough known as Grr-Animals, theย Healthtex children’s clothing line that helped children match giraffe head shirts with giraffe leg bottoms, Mrs. G. longed for a pair of these…
bell bottoms jeans to go with the tube top she was not allowed to wear because her mom said only sluts wore tube tops. Mrs. G. also longed for…
one of these babies, because they were so fresh.
Despite spending many an evening with her Clairol hot rollers and Vidal Sassoon curling iron, she never achieved Farrah Fawcett hair, but Mrs. G…
used Farrah’s shampoo and conditioner. In between showers, she placed both bottles prominently on her dresser with the labels facing out. Mrs. G’s mother called them false idols and turned the labels facing in every time she came into Mrs. G’s room to snoop change the sheets.
After combing out her tangles with her cutting edge wide-toothed-comb, Mrs. G. would spray every inch of her body with…
a half gallon of this. When she got to school, away from her mother’s slut detector eagle eyes, she would slick her lips with fruit punch shellac Kiss Me Stick and pray she might someday walk on the beach…
with them. If she were forced to choose in a game of Truth or Dare, Mrs. G. would have picked Starsky. She was a big fan of the belted cardigan.
But what Mrs. G. wanted more than anything she had ever wanted in her life was …
a mood ring. For those readers who might be younger than Mrs. G. or who were living under one of those pet rocks, mood rings were made with this clear jewel-like stone that changed colors in response to your moods. One of Mrs. G’s co-workers (a science teacher) told her these jewel-like stones were actually thermochromic liquid crystals that respond to body temperature and have absolutely no connection to mood. Fine if science is your thing, but Mrs. G. thinks this teacher is a buzz kill mistaken and prefers to think mood rings are pure d magic.
Mrs. G. saved her pennies and finally bought her own mood ring at this classy store at the mall called Spencers. She focused on John Travolta happy thoughts so her mood ring would stay blue, the color that represented peace, harmony and passion. She wore it for three days until, one morning, the stone just fell off the silver band and landed on her shag carpet. In one fell swoop, a dream killed and $3.99 down the drain. Mrs. G. was majorly bummed.
Mrs. G’s grandfather heard about her mood ring tragedy and decided he could fix it as he was too cheap to buy her a new one handy that way. Mrs. G’s grandfather was a tightwad frugal. He lived through the Depression and never let anyone forget it as he wrung out paper towels and hung them up to dry for later use. She will never forget the time he called her at college and told her he had bought her a new winter coat. When it arrived in the mail, Mrs. G. opened the package to find he had bought her a neon orange hunting parka. His note said he hoped she liked it because it would be warm and help her friends easily spot her on the large campus. Oh yeah, because nothing says be my friend like a neon orange hunting parka. Consequently, this was the year Mrs. G. froze her butt off, and all the deer in Eugene, Oregon ran for their lives when they saw her coming.
Back to the story. Mrs. G’s grandfather decided that the trick to restoring the mood ring to its former glory was to get out his solder gun, set it to hot-as-hell and melt the metal on the back of the stone and the top of the band and hold them back together until the metals cooled. To his credit, Mrs. G’s mood ring never fell apart again. Unfortunately the heat of the soldering gun damaged the inner magic of the mood stone and it always looked
like this. Black. Angry, tense, depressed, nearing suicide black. There were some dark days for Mrs. G, but then disco hit, and it was all about the Bee Gees.
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March 14th, 2008 at 5:51 pm
ah, for me it was the wide tooth comb sticking out of my back pocket on my Gloria Vanderbilt jeans, the fat Bonnie Bell lip gloss in Dr Pepper…and Shaun Cassidy (sigh). thanks for the flash from the past, Mrs G.
March 14th, 2008 at 5:52 pm
neon orange hunting vest….lmao, oh, too funny. Derfwad classic indeed!
March 14th, 2008 at 6:08 pm
I’m so sorry about the neon orange coat. And also about your choice of UO. (hehe – I’m a Coug).
My coveted jeans were Normany Rose and I was a Short & Sassy idolizer (I love that your mom turned the bottles around), but I would also have chosen Starsky and Love’s Baby Soft? YES! I have a secret hope that the boy I adored from 7th – 9th grade thinks of me whenever he gets a whiff of that.
I find many science-types a buzzkill with their “facts” and such…
Excellent article as usual, Mrs. G. Thanks for the memories & embarrassed chuckles ๐
March 14th, 2008 at 6:19 pm
My coveted item was a Liz Claiborne bag. Wearing a uniform everyday, bags were key. Bags and shoes. (The shoes were Campers and they had to be laced a certain way: knotted on the side. And worn down in the back so the foot slid in as it would a slipper.) I kind of wish I were part of the mood ring generation.
March 14th, 2008 at 6:27 pm
Ah, Spencer Gifts. Definitely a place for childhood fantasies. I, too, love that your mom turned your Farrah bottles around. Isis and the Bionic Woman were competitors for my idolization. Oh, the black mood ring… led you right into the punk rock phase, eh?
March 14th, 2008 at 6:38 pm
My selected lip goo was a lovely Yardley frosted white-ish hue that made my teeth incredibly yellow. I was forbidden to
wear it so I kept it in my pocket and put it on as soon as I left the house. I had a mood ring, too.
March 14th, 2008 at 6:39 pm
Mrs. G., being a teeny, tiny, wee, little bit older than you, I remember mood rings. And Dittos. I wanted hip-hugger Dittos, but my mother and yours were of the same opinion. Only sluts wore them. So I said I would take a pair of high-rise Dittos. But only rich people had those. *SIGH* If they ever make Dittos again, I will buy some just because. I also loved Love’s Baby Soft. And feathered bangs. I would have sold my little brother for a pair of Wallaby shoes too. Or a pair of Waffle Stompers. What was one little brother whom I adored compared with wearing shoes that surely would nab me a place with the in-crowd? And just as soon as I got over my crush on Donny Osmond, I was onto Elton John. The Bee Gees were for my days in high school, which is where I was in ’77. Mrs. G., your posts always take me to another place. Today I went to another time.
March 14th, 2008 at 6:45 pm
Bonne Belle lip smackers and Love’s Baby Soft – if I were to get a whiff of either, I would immediately be transported back to 7th and 8th grade. Which might not be a good thing, actually, as I was the only girl in the entire school who did not show up the day after Christmas break wearing Frye boots and gauchos.
March 14th, 2008 at 7:03 pm
I remember mood rings, and I didn’t get one until I was 22. It was no less magical then, I assure you. I’m sorry for the ring tragedy, though.
And Love’s Baby Soft…
False idols, indeed. That would have happened at my house, too.
March 14th, 2008 at 7:10 pm
I pined for some cool, leather Nikes like the ones all of my classmates were wearing. My mom finally got me a pair of Nikes, but they were the geeky nylon ones in a hideous powder blue with yellow swooshes. Someday the shame will wear off…
March 14th, 2008 at 7:11 pm
I told my mother I wanted a Pet Rock. She went out into her garden, found a nice specimen, and handed it to me. She said it was much better than a store-bought one, because “this one is WILD, not domesticated.”
My mother still thinks she’s pretty dang funny.
March 14th, 2008 at 8:13 pm
I never had a mood ring – not even for a few days.
But then, I never had a neon orange hunting parka either – so I guess we’re even.
March 14th, 2008 at 8:43 pm
In 1977, Little (OLD) Miss Sunshine State was in college. I had put away the Love’s Baby Soft and the Mood Ring, but I was still rockin the Farrah Hair
March 14th, 2008 at 8:51 pm
Hey Mrs. G– I was an English Lit & Comp major at U of O, and we’re about the same age.
Tonight, I am SO going to pull out my photo albums and see if there are any orange parkas in the background in any of my pictures.
March 14th, 2008 at 8:52 pm
I have been looking ALL OVER for a bottle of Love’s Baby Soft, so I could explain to my two teenage, one tween, and one preteen daughter the sheer magic of that scent! It makes me hear Queen’s “We Are the Champions” like I never hear it at my kids’ athletic events: sitting crosslegged by the corded, pulse-dial princess phone on my parents’ nightstand, waiting for HIM to call…
March 14th, 2008 at 10:26 pm
You got 6 years on me. I longed for skin tight jordache jeans in my middle school years. I also longed for iron-on patches of Michael Jackson and Tom Selleck on my tee-shirts.
KEEP BELIEVING
March 14th, 2008 at 11:07 pm
What great memories – yours and the comments! Love’s baby soft, dittos, lip smackers, mood rings, nikes, and We Are The Champions – all rolled up together make for some great nostalgia!
My 10 year old daughter loves lip smackers, has had a mood ring and rocks to We Are The Champions – now if I could just find her some Love’s Baby soft, the circle would be complete!!
March 14th, 2008 at 11:36 pm
gak, I remember that smell LOL!
March 15th, 2008 at 3:15 am
Okay…so it’s now official…I must have been a slut ’cause I had those jeans…but..I had carefully embroidered lovely designs all over the bottoms and pockets. Like Cheri, I am just a teeny bit older but…Love’s Baby Soft and Gee Your Hair Smells Terrific…smells that take me back. Found some small tubes of Lip Smackers and fell in love all over again!! Think I’ll go and look at my (not so) old yearbooks…maybe call an old HS friend. Thanks for push back in time, Mrs. G.
March 15th, 2008 at 11:03 am
Oh Lordy – the memories! Yes, the wide tooth comb had to have the fat handle sticking out of your back pocket. What about Earth shoes? Anyone else?
March 15th, 2008 at 11:32 am
For what it’s worth, Mrs. G., I am still a big fan of the belted cardigan.
I am cracking up over here about the orange parka. That is hilariously awesome.
March 15th, 2008 at 6:06 pm
Ahhh memories.
This was the first blog post where I found Mrs. G. several months ago.
Love that Derfwad!!!
March 15th, 2008 at 7:20 pm
Wow. I was such a nerd. I lived in a very (very!) small town in the Northeast and we did have Love’s Baby Soft, which I got as a gift one birthday and loved, but I had no clue about fashion really. Jordache jeans were about the highest anyone in town aspired to that I recall. And I think GrrrAnimals were the last time I was “in fashion” really. Oh, by the time parachute pants came around, I was a little bit more into fashion, but I couldn’t have the brand name ones, and the off-brand ones I got were gray–not my favorite color. Sheesh…here I go rambling off into the past. Something very nostalgic is happening this year in my head that I think is fueled by the looming 20th high school reunion in September. Thanks for the flashback, Mrs. G.! Love yer stuff always! =)
March 15th, 2008 at 9:04 pm
A black mood ring would suit me just fine.
March 15th, 2008 at 9:25 pm
Was that the roll on lipgloss in the glass container? It’s a wonder we weren’t all KILLED from the dangerous cosmetic packaging.
March 16th, 2008 at 5:38 pm
Thanks for keeping the memories alive. We’re the same age, so I can relate, though I missed out on some of these cultural obsessions because we lived in Panama 76-79 (military brat). My husband went to U of O same time as you, but doesn’t remember the neon orange hunting parka – maybe it didn’t stand out that much. ๐
March 16th, 2008 at 11:11 pm
Oh man, do you take me down memory lane or what? I actually had a knock off pet rock. My mother wouldnt fork over the money for the original, so–found my own.. Made it a bed out of toilet paper, and loved it dearly. I bet that little rock is still at my mom and dads, somewhere…waiting.. in the box. (oh how sad for it, I better go find him)
We are the same age, Mrs G, and I am sure we would have been friends at this age, you, however, probably would humble me by your big words and your excellent grades. We would still walk home together,listening to our wide legged jeans swish as we strolled all the way home, me telling you how I was sure Donny Osmond was in love with me, and you and that black mood ring.
March 17th, 2008 at 3:35 am
I bought my mood ring from Woolworths along with my Bonnie Bell lipsmacker and some generic roll on ultra shine lip gloss. My little brother wore the Granimals as I was too old for those by then. I must say he wore his matching zebras with great style.
I also had a major crush on David Cassidy and later Donny Osmond. I was watching the talk show that Mr Osmond a few years ago and I was horrified to discover that Donny Osmond isn’t that bright! He was saying the most banal things. It hurts when your idols fall from grace.
March 17th, 2008 at 2:24 pm
Thank you for the laugh!
This is hilarious and so well written.
March 20th, 2008 at 9:49 pm
wow, thanks for that trip! my sister had the loves baby soft, AND the Farrah hair to a T (i desperately tried to make my pigtails cool, to no avail), but had my dear mom realized the idolatry involved it would have been labeled as such! i DID get a mood ring somehow though, and was bitterly disappointed in it’s (or my?) inability to ever make it match more than a couple colors of the rainbow chart it came with.
March 23rd, 2008 at 8:57 pm
My fave Bonne Bell Lipsmacker: Lemon Coconut Cake (or something equally vile.)
My one, true dream: to look the girl in the Love’s Baby Soft ads. Remember her? Big, wide-set eyes, flawless skin and just the right shine on her perfect lips. Sigh.
Great post, Mrs. G.!
March 19th, 2009 at 4:29 am
I would like to say that he has a great idea of choosing a topic.
March 31st, 2009 at 3:29 pm
aaryn b. couldn’t have said it any better. Great “composition”. I definitely can relate to all of this especially the Loves Baby Soft” where can you find the stuff?? I would love to spray every inch of my body again.